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Financial Advisors

what does it mean to change the conversation?

by Eleanor Blayney
January 11th, 2011

In light of our subscription program for advisors, we are taking a moment to review some of the basics of our initiative.
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We talk a lot about changing the conversation about personal finance for women.  But why is this important, and what does it mean?

It’s important because women have been underserved by the financial services sector.  Many report being patronized or intimidated by financial advisors. If they are part of a couple, they may feel unheard as a result of the discussion being pitched primarily to their spouses or partners.  Many don’t feel ready for the challenge of personal financial management, having grown up without examples of mothers who worked or who were responsible for the important household financial decisions.

It’s important to change the conversation because women are rapidly gaining in economic power.  They are in the workforce to stay, and have accumulated assets of their own.  They are the inheritors of wealth because of their longer life spans.  To survive and thrive, financial advisors have to figure out better ways of reaching women.  They must realize that the traditional male-defined ways of doing business are not going to work.  Women aren’t that interested in the competitive game of money with its constantly changing roster of winners and losers.  They are interested in what money can do for their families, for their communities and networks, for their lives.

Changing the conversation will involve a shift in emphasis and delivery rather than a wholesale discarding of subject matter.  We still need to talk about investments, debt management, tax reduction, and retirement plans with our clients.   There will still be topics that are technical and complicated – estate planning comes immediately to mind – which we must make sure women understand, even when they are totally uninterested or overwhelmed.

Here are just some of the ways that Directions for Women would like to change the conversation about personal finance:

Advisors would talk to women clients:

  • Less about being rich, more about being enriched
  • Less about price, more about value
  • Less about balance sheets, more about balance
  • Less about transactions, more about engagement
  • Less about financial capital, more about social and human capital

These conversations would take place more often at kitchen tables, and less often in formal conference rooms.  Advisors would tell more life stories, and present fewer graphs and charts.

Most importantly of all, advisors would listen more, and talk less.

Categories Financial Confidence, Personal Finance for Women
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Direction$ Alliance Update

by Eleanor Blayney
August 11th, 2010

Note to advisors: We have had reports from some of you who have not received our follow-up email from the call.  If you are on our list or attended our call, make sure that DirectionsForWomen@me.com is added to your contact list so our emails to you won’t end up in your Junk Mail. Otherwise, please email us at the above address and ask to be added to our list.

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This afternoon, Direction$ hosted a conference call with more than 100 financial advisors to discuss “Changing the Conversation of Personal Finance for Women.”

It is an exciting development to engage all these minds in our initiative, and we look forward to future calls in September.

We will be harvesting the comments and ideas shared during the conference call and posting this harvest in another blog, to appear in the next few days.

Here is a summary of the initiatives Direction$ is pushing forward, and we would love your input and feedback on these ideas. Please help us to continue the conversation by commenting below.

  • Continuing coverage in the press, both professional and consumer, to bring more attention to the financial planning needs of women and the role of Direction$ advisors in changing the way we work with women
  • Building partnerships with experts in disciplines distinct from financial planning, such as linguistics, gender studies, psychotherapy, cultural anthropology, behavioral finance, neurology, storytelling and narrative artists. How can these disciplines help us speak to women more effectively and understand their attitudes and issues with money, risk management, wealth?
  • Building an amazing, conversation-changing website that will be a vibrant, exciting place to start, continue, and extend the different discussions we want to have around the subjects of women and money. We see this website as the go-to place for women consumers and the advisors committed to serving these women, for the empowerment, education, and engagement necessary to help women become strong and competent financial decision-makers.
  • Development of college level curriculum on women-centric financial planning issues.
  • Launching prototype consumer circles in Atlanta and the Washington DC area to refine and develop our circle philosophy and process, as the way to create safe space for women to have conversations about money.
  • Thoughtful reflection on what you are telling us you want and need in an advisor community.
  • Development of business models that can support and grow our passion for changing the conversation around personal finance for women.

Again, please use the comment section in this blog to give us feedback on these directions, and the role you might like to play as we move forward together. Feel free to also continue the conversation in our “Direction$ Alliance” community on Facebook. There you will find forum discussions on such topics as “Engaging your women clients throughout the relationship.” You can either go to Facebook and search for the “Directions Alliance” group, or simply click here to visit the Directions Alliance community on Facebook. Once you arrive at the community, please hit the “Like” button and begin participating. There is strength in our numbers.

We hope — if you took away nothing else from the conference call — that you are nevertheless clear about the vision of the Direction$ Alliance as a member-driven and inspired community. Our goal is to create a place for us to meet and start exchanging our experiences and wisdom to make us all better planners and advisors to women.

With our deep appreciation,

Eleanor, Elizabeth, and Peg

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